Miscarriage – Raising controversial issues…

I found both of these blog posts really interesting and they illustrate the often controversial subject of Miscarriage and the battleground that women’s bodies can often become

Misunderstanding Miscarriage


“Miscarriage rarely makes the news, except in tabloids. But last year, Virginia state Senator Mark Obenshain’s ill-advised attempt to require Virginia women to report all miscarriages to the police contributed to his failure to become Virginia’s state attorney general. The bill, introduced in 2009, haunted his race for the position.

Obenshain was trying to demonstrate his moral outrage over the case of a frightened teenager who had given birth to a premature stillborn baby, and disposed of it in a dumpster. It was a tragic case, to all observers. But instead of asking how his state could better provide sex education and contraception, or provide support to teens who get pregnant, he wrote a bill aimed at surveillance and punishment. On penalty of up to a year in prison, women would be required to report all incidences of fetal demise occurring outside a physician’s supervision to the police. They were to report the pregnant woman’s name and the location of the remains, and would not be allowed to dispose of them without police supervision.” Lara Freidenfelds  (Extract from Blog post)

My Miscarriage (Is Not Your Miscarriage)


“Personally, I did not feel that I had experienced a “real” loss. I know women whose children have died. This was absolutely not that. I have children in my life who are my light, and if the unfathomable happened to any of them, that would be a “real” loss. What I felt about the failed pregnancies was profound disappointment at the loss of potential and whatever fantasies I had about the future, but I accepted and understood them. I was okay with it. Maybe it’s the wisdom of my “advanced maternal age.” I’d seen so many women go through the same thing, I knew that miscarriage is a very common, normal reproductive experience. And on a spiritual level, I did not believe that anyone died. For me, it was a matter of bad timing, not death. The lingering trauma primarily concerned the physical event, even though I did feel sadness at the time of my first due date, and experienced – and continue to experience – a variety of feelings about what happened to me. Other women have very different interpretations of their miscarriages, and I respect those differences. These events are too personal to put one label on all of them.” Carrie Pitzulo (Extract from Blog Post)


Babyloss Awareness Week

Babyloss Awareness Week

There are lots of events taking place to mark baby loss awareness week which takes place  from 9th-15th October. The Miscarriage Association are using this time to encourage people to talk openly about babyloss, hence breaking the silence and taboo which can often exist around this subject.

“..it’s a special opportunity to mark the brief lives of babies lost in pregnancy, or during or shortly after birth. This year, the Miscarriage Association is asking our supporters to help us start a national conversation about baby loss. It’s not always an easy conversation to have, but with one in four pregnancies ending in miscarriage, and one in a hundred ending in ectopic or molar pregnancy, it’s likely that we all know someone who has been affected.” text from MA website http://www.miscarriageassociation.org.uk


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